Our Education System Totally Forgot To Teach Us This
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I am going to start saying with some ugly truths. Just think about the situations, how many times have you been self ignorant, feeling irritated, guilty, anger without even knowing the root cause of it? Many times right. Many of us even choose the profession without even knowing if we are truly suited for it.
We usually think our reactions to each situation are different. But that’s not true, our reactions to the present are heavily influenced by our past. it all started from our childhood. And our childhood is a very long one.
I want to give a small comparison of childhood between a human and a horse.
Horse it takes just 30 minutes before it stands up on its own. Let’s compare it with us, human beings. We take 25,000 hours which is 18 years to stand on our own in life. And sometimes for some of them, it takes even longer.
Being in this modern society education is the primary focus for everyone. Every child spends at least a minimum of 8 to 10 years of their lives in school. They learn about science, math, languages and so many kinds of stuff. But does the modern education system real teach the children about how to be emotionally strong? no not at all.
In this article, you are going to know about the 4 keys to emotional maturity. Understanding this will help you to become a successful person in life.
So here is a very important question for you all?
How many children who complete their schools and colleges really know about — communicating with others, handling their anger, handling their emotions, and how to deal with the relationship? not many rights, surely not me. I even don’t know there is something called emotional intelligence When I was in school and college.
The way most of them learn is through handling challenging moments and painful experiences in life, which teaches us to be emotionally intelligent.
Not only we are physically limited in childhood but also emotionally underdeveloped. we rarely understand the real origin of our own sadness and anger. Imagine this, when you hear your parents are screaming in the bedroom what your you think? It’s a fight right. have you ever thought it would be the process or part of a healthy relationship? No. because that’s how we have been grown.
Every emotional imbalance we experience in our adulthood has a deep root from our childhood which is very hard to identify. we usually judge our friends by what they do now, we don’t understand what they have come across in childhood which made them be what they are today. Everyone has their own story but it's not easy to identify, either we don’t admit it or we don’t remember it.
Here are the 4 keys to emotional maturity, which help you to be emotionally intelligent.
The 1st key is Self Love -
How much do you really love yourself? self-love gives you a lot of confidence and courage to handle any situation in life. You should start loving yourself, if you already do, start loving yourself more. Nothing wrong with it and you don’t have any limitations. Just leave a comment, how much do you love yourself, that spread happiness and makes people happy reading it.
The 2nd Key — Accepting Mistakes -
How many of us really accept mistakes in life? Do you know what, it really needs so much strength and courage? If you accept mistakes, it means you are a stronger person. People who do not accept mistakes are often considered weak. it even makes us lose the best people around us.
The 3rd Key — Communication -
Communication is nothing but putting our feeling into words and expressing it, rather than feeling pain inside or lashing out at others or being silent and being alone. Communication helps us to recover faster.
The 4th Key — Trust -
Do you trust others? How much risk are you willing to take? it’s not blind trust which I am talking about. There so many of us who never trusts other even though they been a part of our life for so many years. Develop your trust with others.
Society celebrates winners, after all, who doesn’t love a good success story? But when it comes to losers, most people aren’t quite sure what to say.
We alone are responsible for our success and failures. Luck or circumstance play no role in it. This narrow mindset will cause so much stress and anxiety. It’s time to adapt to the more generous view about how to live an emotionally matured life.
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